tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post7146070511171464511..comments2023-08-08T09:07:27.695-07:00Comments on great expectations: - when is #2 coming -kyna...http://www.blogger.com/profile/07271509049697686005noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-18889257548338351552012-01-07T21:34:18.097-08:002012-01-07T21:34:18.097-08:00Kyna, this was amazing to read.
We have been ask...Kyna, this was amazing to read. <br /><br />We have been asking ourselves this question as well (yes, Cruz is only 6 months old, but as it took us about 1 1/2 years to get pregnant with him, it's something that we kinda have to start thinking about early.) I totally get the uncertainty. So much of what you said is exactly what I've been saying too. Cruz was more of a high-needs baby too (not nearly as much as your babe, but a whole lot more than any other baby I knew) and I went through a few months of depression when he was born, so it's a big decision to think about having another baby. We also were married for 6 years before he was born, and LOVED the time with just the two of us. <br /><br />Thanks so much for sharing your heart and being honest. You're amazing, mama! :) <br /><br />Andrea xoxoAndrea {kerubo mama}https://www.blogger.com/profile/11735068918123555136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-70266724354649051832011-08-17T11:45:30.252-07:002011-08-17T11:45:30.252-07:00Thank you for being so open and honest. I readily ...Thank you for being so open and honest. I readily admit to anyone and everyone that even though my daughter is almost 20 months, I have no plans in my mind for a second. Obviously, I want three or four kids, but I am so not ready. The plan has always been for my husband and me to assess things when she's two, but I don't even think I'll be ready then! Scares me. And I grew up 3.5 years apart from my next closest sibling. We were 4 grades apart, so it made a big difference.Amy @ Amy Day to Dayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17080970868717876759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-59729711764828674122011-08-15T07:00:04.313-07:002011-08-15T07:00:04.313-07:00This is a great post! You will know when you are r...This is a great post! You will know when you are ready for another one, and it's you and your husbands choice! Since it annoys me so much when people would ask us, I refuse to EVER ask my friends when they will have another baby! haha!Alliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09371173244494164738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-53827773388422644862011-08-14T18:44:01.899-07:002011-08-14T18:44:01.899-07:00I can only imagine how hard that decision must be,...I can only imagine how hard that decision must be, but I think we (women)truly do feel when we are ready to have babies. I think its a gift the Lord gave us. In order for us to put our bodies through pregnancy then labor, and to completely devote ourselves to our new born, we feel the need to have that baby. Does that make sense?<br />We've been married for over 3 years and people ask us all the time when we're having a baby. Honestly, I've never really felt the urge until the past couple months. It's been so cool/scary to actually feel the need/want/desire to get pregnant! We're not trying yet, and won't until I'm 100% ready for it. So I totally believe you'll know when you're ready :)Courtney Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00932251648323616331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-33105291873506891882011-08-12T22:06:21.833-07:002011-08-12T22:06:21.833-07:00I am sure you have gotten this already but there i...I am sure you have gotten this already but there is an award for you on my blog!!!Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11386834479061171232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-42933975253986879772011-08-12T16:35:29.727-07:002011-08-12T16:35:29.727-07:00How did I NOT know you had a blog??? You must tell...How did I NOT know you had a blog??? You must tell me these things lady!! Also, I LOVE this post!! We get asked all the time when baby #3 is coming... UM... RIGHT... husband still in school, we live in a 2 bedroom apartment, no one in this family has a REAL job :) anyway, love this post! Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08272447915689645100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-75234196710661748372011-08-12T10:00:31.584-07:002011-08-12T10:00:31.584-07:00Our baby is about 6.5 months old and right now I d...Our baby is about 6.5 months old and right now I don't know that I ever want another one lol. I definitely need time!<br /><br />We have awarded you the Versatile Blogger award! Please stop by our blog to claim your award and share the fun :) <br /><br />Have a great day!<br />Brandi, Amanda and Leslie - The Three Fabulous Mommies<br />http://3fabulousmommies.blogspot.comBrandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09470412720134722151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-7636092920672773872011-08-11T05:24:34.975-07:002011-08-11T05:24:34.975-07:00great post girl- you always learn to become the wi...great post girl- you always learn to become the wife you were meant to You should check out my giveaway I'm having on my blog to win a Bobbi Brown eyeshadow compact :)be.Caithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05796297392211742593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-15775636785589706582011-08-10T22:25:42.776-07:002011-08-10T22:25:42.776-07:00Kyna, I don't see you as insensitive or selfis...Kyna, I don't see you as insensitive or selfish about your decision to wait. The fact that you wanted to learn to become a good wife to your husband first before taking on the role of mother shows a woman who shows great judgment.<br /><br />Since you have great intuition...you said you will know when...then I think you have nothing to worry about.<br /><br />I think you're pretty awesome. Ease off on yourself a little bit. Have a great rest of the week.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-78259683193954270652011-08-10T21:38:51.040-07:002011-08-10T21:38:51.040-07:00Great post! We knew as soon as we got pregnant we ...Great post! We knew as soon as we got pregnant we weren't even going to consider talking about another until Payton was 3 (for the insane reason of we are planning to take her to Disney for her 3rd birthday and I don't want an infant or to be pregnant while there). I am now not even sure if I want another. I know my husband reallllly does (and will wait until I am ready) but the newborn stage is trying (and this from someone with a semi "normal needs" baby- she needs a lactose sensitivity formula but had a 2-3 week stretch of fussy baby where I swore she was going to be colicky). I think it is more of, I have so many plans for her that I am not sure how another will fit in to those plans. I guess only time will tell right?Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11386834479061171232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-5906652684673278102011-08-10T18:34:14.262-07:002011-08-10T18:34:14.262-07:00You and me both girl! My son is 2 1/2 and my husba...You and me both girl! My son is 2 1/2 and my husband is dying to have another baby. But like you, I'm just not ready! And I'm actually being kind of selfish about it. I had a horrible pregnancy and I'm not ready to put myself or my body through that again! But someday I'll have another baby, and so will you :)Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16447245810379596124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-89576892032458306032011-08-10T18:17:46.736-07:002011-08-10T18:17:46.736-07:00Ugh, dang comment just poofed away. Anyway, I thin...Ugh, dang comment just poofed away. Anyway, I think you wrote exactly what's been going on in our house! Brady's first year but freaking hard thanks to reflux, reflux and a crappy string of events. We were close to starting to try again too (around aug/sept) but i had a freakout :) I always say though, our next baby is going to LOVE sleep! :)amyhttp://www.motherhoodimperfected.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-60532848108237000482011-08-10T18:03:46.339-07:002011-08-10T18:03:46.339-07:00Great topic!
Luckily for us, J was a very relaxed...Great topic!<br /><br />Luckily for us, J was a very relaxed baby and, for the most part, rolled with the punches (save for a few digestive issues that resulted in some very. unpleasant. suppositories.). I digress...<br /><br />Shortly after giving birth to J, I had some health issues that resulted in the threat of a hysterectomy. Thank God I did not have to have one, but because of this scare I am desperate to have another child. I have been warned that conceiving in the future may be difficult, so I would like to try sooner rather than later so that there is plenty of time to seek treatment as necessary.<br /><br />J is 4.5 months and I think we might "stop preventing" in January but actively trying next summer. We'll see...E @ Life on a Quilthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12117116008309217419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-3066651090348064282011-08-10T17:07:52.703-07:002011-08-10T17:07:52.703-07:00Jake & I go back and forth on this topic all t...Jake & I go back and forth on this topic all the time. We are currently deciding whether or not to have any more at all. There are SO many things to consider. I'm just waiting on that "the time is right feeling." And I feel the same I just want to enjoy Rylin being my only right now.Etosia (e-tasha)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10505348767075727010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-42514139054073805892011-08-10T16:34:15.233-07:002011-08-10T16:34:15.233-07:00Kyna, I can totally and 100% relate to this post!....Kyna, I can totally and 100% relate to this post!. Our girls are 3 years and 9 months apart. When Eve (our oldest) was around 2 people started asking the same questions....little did they know that we tried for 16 months to get pregnant with Lilah (our 2nd who is now 21 months old). We had no trouble at all getting pregnant with Eve (who is now 5)but suffered some infertility problems having Lilah. I was even on Clomid for 3 months and we were still unsuccessful at that stage. <br /><br />We had "planned" to have them under 3 years apart, but gods will was for them to be 3 years and 9 months apart. I believe now that it all worked out the way it was meant to. For a long time I was discouraged, and sad and would cry and be extremely jealous when friends or I heard anyone else was pregnant. <br /><br />Eventually though, it all worked out, and here we are - Lilah is bordering on turning 2 now. We obviuously get asked "when's the 3rd"....I really don't know how to answer that. I actually did a post about having the 3rd child a little while ago. <br /><br />I was going to put this as a comment but then it suddenly got really long....LOL. Sorry :)<br /><br />I hope (if you haven't already) will check my blog out and perhaps read all about my story. <br /><br />www.miss-mommy.comNicole @ Miss Mommyhttp://www.miss-mommy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2879249761854843465.post-60943826050421453102011-08-10T16:19:02.315-07:002011-08-10T16:19:02.315-07:00What a great post. I too find it interesting that...What a great post. I too find it interesting that as soon as the first baby comes, when the 2nd one is coming is the new hot topic! I think it is great that you guys are really doing what feels right to you and what works for your family. <br /><br />I also can completely relate to feelings about being nervous about doing the whole newborn thing again. We had the same issues(reflux, dairy allergy, constant screaming, etc.) and it was traumatizing for us. We love Parker SO much but we did not have an easy start, and the idea of doing it again(even though of course we know it could be totally different) is definitely daunting. <br /><br />I definitely think when you are ready you will know like you said. :) For what it is worth, I know a lot of families where the kids are 3-4 years apart and it is great! And the idea of having 2 under 2 scares me to death, haha. :)Genevievehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17583430603151757254noreply@blogger.com